An alternative to courthouse wedding in winter?

We can't get married til winter this year, and he's getting deployed shortly after that. I hate the idea of a courthouse wedding because a) it seems impersonal to me and b) that is how he married his first wife. Yes he is over her. Yes we are both sure we love each other and want to be together for the rest of our lives. I don't need advice on our relationship I just need ideas on other ways to do weddings that don't require a ton of planning please.