One night stands -- should men be judged just as harshly as women?

ugh... so when are MEN going to start being judged for being s or being prudish (like women are so harshly judged)? Why do women have to have that burden of judgement? Wouldn't it be interesting if girls were like "yeah, he goes home with every girl on the first night. He is such a SLUT! He's ruined."