This may sound like a weird question, but I need to know I don't think this is normal?

In a way, yes it is normal. BUT, you need ALOT of lubricant and I do mean alot. You and him both. Then, you need to be really hot or else it just doesn't feel good. If you come before you do that, it doesn't feel as good and tends to hurt. Additionally, you may want to try another position for that. My husband and I love doing , but it all has to work together or it doesn't work at all. Have fun and good luck.